Just "thinking"...

 
                      We have know from early on (early teens and before) that We are Not "normal"""

                           And Remember.... "Maximum Utilization of Available Resources"

                  Do  not how long till "health issues" ruin any "life" Stacey could have had...
Will you look back and say "I'm glad I  did..." ... or will your Regrets be "I wish I Had...."