Well, itis Stacey's Birthday Weekend ...

                                 yes, Sunday (May 19th) will be Stacey's "Birthday".....
                                         
Many "things" Not "pleasant" at present.... we have no "hopes" for anything or much of anything (cake, birthday wishes, visit from Friends... none expected)... feeling rather "down"
  
                     the "musical candles" would make for an "interesting" gift for Stacey....
  
                  was even thinking of a "Guest List"..... attendance "Mandatory"....lol